What people may find is that they are able to feel good themselves, even if they are not in a relationship. When this is the case, it becomes clear that they are not dependent on anyone else in order to experience positive feelings.
Being this way is most likely going to stop them from starting a relationship with someone just because they feel down. It could be relatively easy for such individuals to wait until they meet someone who they actually want to be with.
A Different Need
Therefore, if they do end up with someone, it shows that they actually want to share their life with that person. Not only will there be an attraction between them, but there will also be the values that they have in common.
This person is then going to add something to their life, just as they will add something to the other person’s life. Nonetheless, what is exchanged between them won’t be something that they should be providing themselves.