The way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. Our popular culture assails us with this kind of hyper-elevated romantic image of love. Then it encourages us to play these really dehumanizing games in order to find love. There are three steps anyone can take that not only lead toward real love but also enrich our entire lives.
The Deeper Dating Podcast can help you learn what they are and how you can use them in your life.
Find Real Love
There’s an elevation that’s unrealistic, and then it asks us to just do these things that are below who we’re meant to be in order to find it. We’re kind of screwed unless we find a wiser path. The three steps that I’m going to describe not only lead more directly to true love but they enrich your entire life because they’re the real skills of intimacy. These are also described in my classes, intensives, and my book.