Previously, we have talked about how we actually screw ourselves over when we try to get all our crap done at one time. Check out that story here if you haven’t yet!

Let’s pull that thread a little bit because it’s a conflicting concept when you’re recovering from your divorce. On the one hand, you’ve got weirdos like me saying, “Calm the hell down and don’t rush, rush, rush to your recovery because shit doesn’t work like that.”

But then, on the other hand, this same weirdo is going to tell you, “Hey, there are still some things you need to do on your end to help pave the way for feeling comfortable and feeling like your old self again.”