Why are there so many hairstylists who are gay? Why are our homes so often featured in interior design magazines? What is it with gay men and femininity? Why are…...

Sometimes clients tell me that they are boring since they have no interests other than work. “I wish I had hobbies but I just can’t seem to get interested in…...

When will life return to normal? Right now, there is no clear answer to that question. The uncertainty creates feelings of dread, anxiety, and grief among all of us. It’s exhausting. It’s getting…...

I work with a lot of gay men. Here’s what I’ve noticed: Gay men are very busy. It takes a lot of time to: Make it at work Stay fit…...

Look inside and you might find “The Outsider Trigger.” Many people fear being alone and socially isolated. However, due to early experiences of feeling different from their families and classmates,…...

Whoever came up with the concept of “Pride” when naming our Pride Marches and Pride Month was definitely clever. As LGBTQ people, we use the word pride a lot. But perhaps…...

I’m an advice columnist for the Advocate.com. I received a question from a reader asking about his happiness and wondering why he wasn’t in “gay heaven;” read on for my…...

You’ve heard it before. Modern life can be a lonely place. Most people are struggling with this, but LGBT people can feel especially isolated. It comes with the territory of being different.…...

Bisexuality doesn’t get as much attention as other sexual orientations. Even lesbian and gay people don’t often think about what it is like to be bisexual. I sat down with…...

Being perfect is one way to manage being an outsider in your own family, school, city, or country. And feeling like an outsider is a pretty typical experience for young…...