Every week as an LGBTQ therapist, without fail, I hear stories of hurt feelings and painful miscommunication stemming from the use of technology. It’s obvious that many friends and boyfriends…...

Often in my couples’ counseling work with gay men, we uncover the underlying reason why the couple is having trouble feeling connected. We find the following unconscious belief in one…...

I often work with clients who want to end a destructive, unhealthy relationship and are struggling with the willpower to say goodbye. These relationships can have an addictive quality, and…...

Here’s something you may not have recently considered when it comes to relationships with our partners and with ourselves: Tapping into your inner baby is a really useful tool in…...

Members of the queer community are all too familiar with stereotypes. Whether it’s generalizations made through the media or just plain ignorance, stereotypes tend to come up a lot in…...

Are you and your partner thinking about opening up your relationship to additional sexual partners? Here are some considerations that may help you get ready for an open, gay relationship.…...

Contributing writer, Adam Blum, shares insightful ways in which gay men can recover from affairs. As Blum says, “recovery is possible, and in fact, most gay couples do survive an…...

“What is hot?” Jack Morin, Ph.D, wrote the The Erotic Mind* back in 1995 and essentially answered that question. Eighteen years later, the book is still in print. Dr. Morin…...

As a couples counselor working with gay men, I am often asked my opinion on monogamy and open gay relationships. So, what works for men in long-term relationships? Hint: It…...

People use stereotypical garbage to colour their picture of any group they do not belong to. In this case, the lesbian community is no exception. Most of the things people…...