As they say, everybody’s got something — something your partner does that bothers you, upsets you, periodically even makes you think about pulling the plug. He’s too quiet, she’s too…...

Over the years of working with men and their relationships, not to mention my own 31-year relationship with Joyce, I have seen some central issues emerge. The last thing I…...

There are few things more heart-warming than seeing a sweet-looking couple in their 90s holding hands and laughing together in a park, on an airplane, or standing behind you in…...

It is often said that in the most successful relationships, partners bring out the best in each other. Sometimes, though, in the midst of the stresses of daily life, we…...

Do You Put in More Effort Than Others? Make Your Efforts Feel Effortless I’ve lost count of the number of people who get in touch with me asking: “How can…...

Want to raise the heat in your relationship this summer?  Here’s how we do it. Every year, Charlie and I take two summer vacations: one with our kids and grandchildren,…...

A dull, boring relationship is not going to last very long. Have you ever found yourself bored with your partner? If you’re anything like me, you probably have, and you…...

The entire concept of marriage varies from person to person. Some people expect the fairy tale ending and to live happily ever after while other couples are excited to take…...

There’s nothing like going to the fresh-fruit section at your favorite market spot and picking out the juiciest pieces you can find. If you’re like us, then at one point…...

So where do couples get stuck in their relationships? In my long years of doing couples’ therapy, I’ve found that there are five key areas where couples struggle. If you…...