“Divorce isn’t such a tragedy. A tragedy’s staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love.” – Jennifer Weiner Joanne called me in tears; her pain…...

Hello, Friends! I want to talk to you about something you may have lost during your divorce: Your ability to trust again – especially if you were betrayed by your spouse.…...

Marrying and divorcing a narcissist is rough, but co-parenting with a narcissist is almost impossible. The demands, attacks, threats, and attempts to inflict guilt are so skillful, they rattle a parent, sabotaging his or her…...

Couples may reconcile after divorce, but that doesn’t mean issues don’t come up. Here is a Q&A exploring some of those issues. The Question Nancy wrote to me asking the…...

1Divorce is a process of separation and transformation – a process that begins long before the dissolution decree. Its stages – cognitive, emotional, physical, legal, and spiritual – if worked…...

Have you been told, “Just let go of it,” or tell yourself, “I have to let go,” but wonder, how? I’ve asked myself that question. Sometimes you want to let…...

It can be difficult, if not impossible, for many divorced people to ever rest in a state of pure grief, pure anger, or pure relief when it comes to feelings…...