As a matchmaker, I do a lot of coaching around the “where is this relationship going” talk. And this is a biggie. Some women blow it by coming off needy, clingy, or demanding. Want to come off like Marilyn Monroe with your man begging you to have “the talk” so he can lock you down? I know how to have him sweating the relationship.

Attracting the guy is easy, but getting the guy to commit to you and thanking his lucky stars that you are his girlfriend is a whole different story. I believe that you have to be fully in tune with you and what you want. Then you need to be ready to walk if you aren’t getting it. This doesn’t mean acting like a diva or playing games. I never recommend that – ever!