I’ve interviewed thousands of women. As a matchmaker, it’s my job to meet droves of women and get a sense of who they are and what they’re looking for. I find out more from them in five minutes than you would on five dates. Most women think they know what they want, but they really don’t. If you ask a woman what she’s looking for in a man, she’ll tell you she wants someone tall, dark, and handsome. But if you look at her relationship history, you’ll see that’s not always true.

Men are visual and fall in love through their eyes. They’re shallow and superficial. Sorry guys, you know it’s the truth. However, women fall in love through their ears. We care more about the whole package. We value a man’s personality and how he treats us. I’m here to tell you that looks aren’t that important to all women. Most women want more than a great-looking guy. Read on to see what women really want.